Coffee dates. Picnics. Good vibes only.
Coffee dates. Picnics. Good vibes only.
Make Real Friends, Offline
We create small meetups for women where we bring you together to connect and make new friends. Think great people, good vibes, and your next best friend.
No swiping.
No pressure.
Just real connection.
How it works
1. Sign up
Fill in a quick form, and upload a short selfie video answering one of our fun questions. This helps us match you better and keeps things authentic.
2. Get Matched
We help you find your people by grouping you with 4-6 people you’re likely to get along with.
3. Show up as you are
No cliques, no pressure. Be yourself, and meet new friends. We pick the spot, and handle the boring stuff. You just come through.
You’re not a user on an app. You’re a person.
People connect best over food, sunshine, and real conversation — not DMs.
Don’t miss out
Join us at the next meetup
We limit the number of people at each event to keep the energy warm and the conversations real.
Make New Friends Meetup
We’ll match you with a small group of 4-6 amazing women, all handpicked to match your vibe. Real friends, real fun.
R120
per meetup
- Every meetup is held at cafes chosen for your comfort and safety.
- Get natural icebreaker tips to easily get conversations going.
- Get a who's who guide before the meetup.
Friendships aren’t built in a DM.
Meeting in real-life beats online any day
Frequently Asked Questions
What’s the selfie video for?
It’s quick (20 seconds!) and makes everything feel more real and safe.
Do I still pay for my own meal?
Yes! Your fee includes matching, and planning — your food and drinks is all you.
What if I can’t make a meetup?
Tickets are “use it or lose it”—since there’s limited space for each meetup, spots can’t roll over.
How do I cancel?
Super easy. Just drop us an email at cancel@bfffinder.com at least 7 days before the meetup you bought a ticket to. We’ll give you a full refund.
Is this dating service?
Nope, this is all about genuine friendships.
Making friends as an adult shouldn’t feel weird